How to get free of jealousy - Preaching the Word of God

Jealousy, how to work that feeling destructive
How to get free of jealousy
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I can not stop being jealous

From whence come wars and fightings among you? Come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members?
2 covet and you have nothing; matais soon. Invejais, and can not obtain; soon ye fight and war. Nothing ye, because ye ask not.
3 Ye ask, and receive not, because you ask amiss, that you may spend it on your pleasures.
4 Adulterers and adulteresses know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.
5 Do ye think that the scripture saith in vain, The Spirit that dwelleth in us yearns for us to envy?
6 But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resists the proud, but giveth grace to the humble.
7 Submit yourselves therefore to God Resist the devil and he will flee from you.
8 Come near to God and he will come near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and, you double-minded, purify your hearts.
9 Be afflicted, mourn, and weep: let your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom.
10 Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he shall lift you up.

James 4:1 to 10


When it comes to jealousy, the first thing to keep in mind is that here on earth jealousy, envy and greed are part of some of the main weapons of the devil, the prince of this world. God's adversary uses these weapons to sow in the hearts of God's children all sorts of bad feelings with one goal:

Distance us from the grace of God and destroy us.

That's right! Is that what the enemy wants. Our destruction and the destruction of our family.

However, sometimes we can see that the word of God speaks of jealousy on the part of God for us, because jealousy is just the feeling I want for you the affection is directed to another.

What word is telling us is that God loves us so much that He longs, He sighs, He desires from the heart Him His side have at our lovable and precious presence. That always thinking of us free from the clutches of the evil and hands.

However, for the devil, jealousy does not have the same meaning. It uses other negative feelings such as greed (you do not want what is right or that the person does not deserve), envy (not only want what belongs to others, but also want the total destruction of others to stay what belongs to others). Within this group of feelings do you get the destroyers suffered so jealous.

Jealousy, that negative feeling, it's sown by the devil, but it is the very person who watering, it is originated due to a low self esteem (low self esteem: negative sentiment that is sent by the devil to make the person not accepted and neither one likes the way she is. Just the way God made it) because of that person that lives up devaluing, not giving the value, not recognizing themselves in the individual true gift that God gave to each , just projecting her happiness in another person.

When the person is devalued find someone who meets the desires and feelings that she thinks is missing in her life, she sees there the possibility of externally complete the other person. All this, in most cases is done unconsciously.

Once the person is devalued establishes a relationship with the other person she is incorporating her what belongs to another, and that is the wonder of it. So she, in other words, takes possession of the qualities and characteristics that others have and that you are pleasant.

All this without the person realizing it depreciates. When that person realizes or feels that her happiness is threatened by something that makes it lose part of what makes you happy (which is a lie created by herself because she thinks it makes her happy, what she thinks it is actually part of another) it is tremendously nervous and angry because of this, completely loses control of herself and of the whole situation. That is not how we behave when someone is trying to take what is ours?

However, the wrath and anger of the person will not feel jealous for the one who is "trying to take away our right" but for the person for whom one has affection for the person who thinks it is is to blame. It is she who is cheating and giving to another, without the consent of the person is devalued, what belonged only to her. Anyway it is a damn mess.

I believe it has given to get an idea of ​​how and why the jealousy enters a person's life, but we have to keep in mind is that the person who is suffering with this kind of negative feeling has to understand that this feeling does not comes from God and that he must cease to exist in her life, and for this to occur there is only one way:

The person has to surrender her life to the Lord Jesus Christ, the God of True Love, because what one thinks to be defending for Love is merely a feeling that well expresses the presence and origin of such feeling that without doubt, comes from the creator of such emotion: the Father of pride, self-centeredness, selfishness, greed, envy, deceit and destruction. The enemy of our souls, the devil.

The Lord Jesus Christ came into the world to destroy all the works of the devil. The person will just get rid of this type, and other negative feelings, when she, with all your heart, surrender the arms of the Lord Jesus Christ and trust him. Only Love and the virtues of the Lord of Life, Peace and Love can make one's life a real sentimental and emotional transformation.

Friend! Amiga! Do not be afraid. Indulge yourself in the hands of the Lord Jesus Christ that he will change your life. He will turn all this bad feeling in blessing upon blessing. Believe in God. He does not fail ever. Jesus came to bring men and women true freedom. The word says that if the Lord Jesus sets you free will be free indeed. This means that if the person does not seek the God of Life, the God of Freedom, she will be making the choice to continue to be slave of all that is negative and destructive feelings.

Only the God who is Love itself will teach man what true love really.

Amen! Glory to the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.