How to win the love of my life - Evangelical Messages from God's Word

How to Save Your Marriage - How to win back your love

The submission of women to men is not a curse but a blessing for her. Many women do not understand this. In a house where the man is a weak woman and humiliates and dominates in this home there is hardly true happiness. For God said:

It is not good that man should be alone; far make him an help meet for him. - Genesis 2: 18

Subjecting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the savior of the body "(Ephesians 5:21-33)


When the woman is the helpmate, the cooperator and the man she understands and accepts this fundamental role for her life and for the health and prosperity of your home and family, you all will be well. A wife who act according to the word of God will cause your home to be day after day happier, prosperous and blessed.

Many women do not understand this and think that word means what they should be simple adjuncts and they must vanish alongside their husbands. Wrong! Note well: God said he would not give the man a slave but a cooperator, a suitable person, a person that helped the man to accomplish all things. A companion. A friend

Now! A cooperator by chance no opinion?
As agreed between the parties, a co-worker is not free to do things?

The wise and virtuous woman has a God-fearing behavior and obeys the words of his Lord:

The wise woman builds her house, the foolish, but it down with your hands. - Proverbs 14:1

Wife of noble character who can find? For what its worth is far above jewels. - Proverbs 31:10


The wisdom of women is the highest quality it can be. A wise and virtuous woman draws for your home and your family the wonderful blessing of God. That is what will give the blessing upon blessing this home.

By outo hand women need to be very careful not to act like Queen Jezebel and make her house a home sad and failed. This happens when a woman gets carried away by the appeals of modern society and ends up assuming the role of a woman disobedient, rebellious, arrogant and without common sense. The modern woman should be very careful with what she sees, what she thinks, what she watches on TV, with whom she talks, what she talks about what she reads in magazines and books.

Nowadays, if a woman gives much attention to what people say it runs the great risk of failing to grow in his heart the Fear of God and thus end up not using the wisdom of her to make her husband grow. A wife who comes this way is totally ignorant and are shooting themselves in the foot or sawing the branch itself.

Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they become one flesh. - Genesis 2:24

At first, for women, this position submit a position may seem minor, but it is not:

Take this example:

A husband will accomplish something and asks the opinion of his beloved wife. She gives her husband the wise opinion. He, hard head, like some men are not immediately accept her opinion and make the thing as his head and his will ..

Conclusion:

All note that the thing was done in accordance with what he thought was a stubborn failure. Soon he comes to the conclusion that he erred when he failed to take into account the opinion that their beloved and wise wife had given him.

How do you think this man will behave next time knowing that beside him there is a person serene, calm, sensible, thoughtful and very wise?

Sure he will consult his wife and the principal before him do anything he will think and respect, much in the opinion of his wise wife. If he does not do well is because it is one of those iron head out there and only change even after much knock life, prayer and intercession.

 Husbands:

Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord, because the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, being himself the savior of the body.

But just as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, in order to sanctify it, having cleansed her by the washing of water by the word, to present it to himself glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing, but holy and blameless. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, as Christ also the church, because we are members of his body. Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. However, you also, each one of you, so love his own wife as himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

Ephesians 5: 21-33


But, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of her own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. -

1 Corinthians 7:2-5



Should be honored by all and the marriage bed kept pure, but to those who give themselves to prostitution, and adulterers God will judge. "- Hebrews 13:4



Communication and dialogue


Be angry and sin not

26 Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: 27 Neither give place to the devil. Ephesians 4: 26 and 27

Anger is a feeling that we show when we're not happy with anything that is happening.

As anger is part of our package of emotions, when it occurs, it is very difficult to control. What we must always keep in mind is that when it occurs, we must be careful with it, the ideal is that it does not happen. However, as our ideal and goal is just to reach perfection, unfortunately, we are still light years away from our goal, so we must prepare ourselves to better manage this sentiment when he appears.

The Word of God says:

(...) More worth what dominates his spirit than he who takes a city. - Proverbs 16:32

Now, if you have not got the desired self what should we do to behave better in the face of a crisis of anger?

The best part is that the crisis will not come from us, but if it comes, do not sin. First ask your Lord Jesus Christ and, in time and at the right time, Look to vent it so that later you do not repent of anything you have done or said.

If the crisis of anger from someone else your best bet is to move away from that person or situation immediately. Expect the situation to calm down, wait tempers return to normal, and only then look for the person talk. With great calmness and serenity comment on the incident.

The Word of God is warning us that the devil often uses this feeling to bring more men to destruction and suffering, so we should not give the enemy no reason for him to enjoy any of our weakness.

Once we notice an imbalance the best thing to do is just walk away and pray. If already said some rude it is best just ask God for forgiveness and then his brother. Then take a deep breath, lift your head and ball into the woods that the game is the championship!

Give more attention and affection to your partner:

When he or she speak really pay attention to what the other is saying;
Give some souvenirs from time to time: it can be a box of chocolates, flowers, a book, a magazine that she likes ...;
Go walk in the park;
Write a foot massage him or her;
Go to the market and the fair with him or her;
Cook for him or her;
Go out to dinner;
Go to the movies;
Go to the beach;
Go to church together;
pray together;
Read the Bible together
When talking remember:

By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bones. Proverbs 25:15


Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and health to the bones. - Proverbs 16:24


As we can see the words that are issued in any situation are essential in any relationship. This way when you talk to your loved or loved to watch his words are sweet words, calm, serene, peaceful, healthy and delicious to be heard.




Important!


A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. Proverbs 17:22

Brother! Sister! Frankly, who likes ugly face is a plastic surgeon. Let's take a lively in life because no one deserves to live with a mummy is or is not?


And, to conclude:


1 I am the true vine and my Father is the gardener. 2 He cuts off every branch in me that beareth not fruit he prunes and every one that beareth fruit, to produce more. 3 You are already clean because of the word which I have spoken. 4 Abide in me and I in you. The branch can not bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine. So likewise you, unless you abide in me. 5 I am the vine, ye are the branches. Whoever remains in me and I in him, bears much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing. 6 If a man abide not in me, he is cast forth as a branch and withers; shall be gathered, thrown into the fire and burned. 7 If you remain in me and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be given. 8 My Father is glorified, if ye will ye bear much fruit and become my disciples.

9 As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love. 10 If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father's commandments and abide in his love. 11 I have told you this so that my joy be with you, and that your joy may be complete. 12 This is my commandment: love one another as I have loved you. 13 No one has greater love than he who lays down his life for his friends. 14 Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you. 15 I no longer call you slaves, because a slave does not know what his lord doeth. I call you friends because I have made known everything that I learned from my Father 16 Ye have not chosen me, but I who chose you. I destinei you should go and bear fruit so that your fruit should remain, so that he will give whatever you ask the Father in my name. 17 This is what I command you, that you love one another.

John 15:1 to 17


If the Lord Jesus Christ is not the great architect and administrator of your relationship does not have as their relationship to be a true success.

Stay in the Peace of the Lord Jesus Christ.