Message to those who lost their father or mother

Today, you are very sad and feeling strong and painful feeling of having lost your dear mother or his beloved father. Unfortunately we live in a sinful world where we have to go through this difficult event which is physical death.

Today you are dejected, depressed and is suffering greatly. Someone you loved so much is no longer at his side. A time to mourn, a time to weep and acceptance is necessary for us to put out all this enormous anguish of the experience of living death. We never get used to death. God did not make man to his death. That was not the original plan of our Lord.

We should not indulge in deep sadness. We should not let a depression without end. What we today regard as a huge loss is actually just a long period of absence that all of us we will go. This detachment, unfortunately, will be greater than we are accustomed. It is as if the person that we love to do a long trip. And indeed it is so.

Know that all our dear ones who have departed this life, now they are all asleep in the arms of the Lord Jesus Christ. Is not that wonderful? You might wonder:

Asleep! How so? The Lord Jesus Christ taught us:

And having thus spoken, he added: Lazarus our friend sleepeth, but I'll wake it from sleep. - John 11:11

The Lord Jesus showed us what happens when one part of the world. When a person dies it goes to sleep the sleep of death. To our mind, death is but a rest. It is a transition time. For us that we seem to take forever, but in the spiritual world is quite different. There is not so.

Our life before God is only a breath or a simple steam that rises and then dissipates into the air:

3 Thou turnest man to dust, and sayest, Return, ye children of men!
4 For a thousand years in thy sight are but as yesterday when it is past, and as a watch in the night.
5 Thou waves as with a flood, are as a sleep: in the morning they are like grass which grows; 6 in the morning grows and flourishes; afternoon cut and dry.

Ps 90:3 to 6

Man is like a breath, his days are like a passing shadow. - Psalm 144:4

However, do not know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? Even a vapor that appears for a little while and then vanishes away. - James 4:14

Is there another word of God also teaches us about this unknown and mysterious stage of our lives:

The dead know not any thing, neither have they any more a reward, for the memory of them is forgotten. Also their love, and their hatred, and their envy, is now perished; neither have they any more a portion for ever in any thing that is done under the sun. Ecc 9:5 to 6

That is why we must put aside the sadness exaggerated because our mother and our father is not suffering anymore.
Our God loves us. Our God comforts us showing us what happens when someone dies. The word of God tells us that our loved ones are no longer despair, feel no pain, no longer afraid and resting in the arms of the Lord Jesus Christ.
When you reach the big time of the return of our Lord Jesus Christ Glorious them there will be to resurrect to eternal life. The Apostle Paul taught:

Your life is hid with Christ in God. When Christ who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory. - Col 4 to 3:3

13 We do not, brethren, have you ignorant concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not as others who have no hope.
14 For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in God through Jesus, make them bring with him.
15 We tell you then it is the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who are asleep.
16 For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ will rise first.
17 Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord.
18 Therefore comfort one another with these words.
 1 Thessalonians 4:13 to 18

Therefore the Lord Jesus Christ told us:

Not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. - John 14:1

Jesus said to her: I am the resurrection and the life: he that believeth in me, though he die, yet shall he live; - John 11:25

Because this is the will of my Father, that every one which seeth the Son, and believeth on him, may have everlasting life: and I will raise him on the last day. - John 6:40

No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent me draw him: and I will raise him on the last day. - John 6:44

Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him on the last day. - John 6:54

In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you, I go to prepare a place for you. - John 14:2

Dear! We should not be overly desperate and saddened by the death of someone very dear. Our beloved and loved who have died are not suffering and are much less sad. Surely they are much better than us, because I do not live in this world of sin, pain, suffering, violence, lack of love and are already prepared to meet the Lord of Glory in your back take them all to New Jerusalem the Eternal City where there is pain, suffering, lies, violence, wickedness, sin, sickness and even death.

In the Eternal City will see our God face to face, no temples for our God always be with us, there will not even our beloved sun, for the glory of our God who is going to warm us and enlighten us. Is not that wonderful? That's where our loved ones will be. We will soon come back to meet with them. So we should not be sad because they were in front of us. Surely, when the Lord Jesus to take us there, they there will also be there, and back again to tell us, hugging and kissing.
So, until that day we must come to prepare our hearts for him to learn, with great patience and confidence to wait only in our loving God.

My brother! My sister! Worth the wait. Our God loves us and He wants the best for us.

How's that God loves us and wants the best for us if He took my mother, if he took my father?

God has no part in evil. God has no part with pain and suffering. We live in a world gripped by sin and the sin of the father. Here we are likely to have pain, anguish and suffering, especially with the death of someone we love so much. That is why our God has reserved a new home, a new land where old things left behind there, including pain, suffering and death.

Dear! Let us be firm! Agüentemos bravely in the New Jerusalem because the great happiness back in an extraordinary way to flood all our hearts. Amen!

He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there any more sorrow, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things are passed away. And he that sat upon the throne said, Behold, I make all things new. He added, Write: for these words are trustworthy and true. He told me, It is done: I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end. The one who is thirsty I will give to drink from the fountain of the water of life. He who overcomes shall inherit these things, and I will be his God and he shall be my son. - Revelation 21: 4-7

I leave you peace, my peace I give unto you I do not give to you as the world gives. Not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. - John 14:27